It's My Life . Friends . Bullies

Bullies

Discussion questions for kids to bring up with adults

What's your definition of bullying?

Were you ever bullied when you were younger? Did you ever act like a bully yourself? Where? Who was involved?

Adults can bully each other too. Do you feel like you're bullied by anyone, either at work, in the neighborhood, etc.?

I see you get angry sometimes. What's the difference between being angry with someone and bullying them?

When I'm being bullied, what should I do?

When I'm seeing someone being bullied, what should I do?

How can I change what's going on in my school? Can we talk to my teacher or counselor? Can we try to set up a bullying prevention group or program?

Remember:
--Make it clear how much bullying upsets you, whether it's happening to you or to someone you know. Tell your parents about all the feelings you're having. Tell them simply that you need their help.

--You can have the same discussion with an older brother or sister. They probably know the territory and have their own experiences to share.

--If you want to include younger brothers or sisters in the discussion, that's great-they probably have something to contribute too. But if you'd rather talk to a parent in private, you have a right to request that.

--This doesn't have to be a one-time discussion. Once you break the ice, come back to the subject whenever you feel you need to, so you and your family can explore it together over a long period of time.

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