"Well, not just me, but mostly all the girls in my class have a crush on Graham."
--Robin, 9

"My friend Kylie and I had a crush on the same guy. All we did was sit with him on the bus."
--Abbie, 8

"I really got jealous."
--Morgan, 8

"Me and my best friend Ashley both like the same guy named John. We asked him out and he said yes to her and no to me. It broke my heart so I cried forever. I hated him ever after. "
--Ashley, 11

"Well, we liked the same boy and so we both went up to him and asked him out. He went out with both of us! Isn't that so weird?"
--Zaida, 10

"Well, me and my friend had a crush on the same guy. When I first saw him in my 2nd period me and my friend really thought he was cute. Once he came up to me and talked to me and stuff, he was really rude, so I told my friend that I talked to Andrew (that's his name). She didn't believe me and I told her that I don't like him anymore and I told her, he is all yours!"
--Sinajda, 13

"The way me and my friend dealt with it, is we asked another friend of ours to ask the guy who he likes. Whomever he says he likes, gets to go out with him."
--Melissa, 13

"My best friend Kayla liked my boyfriend Jason. She tried to do EVERYTHING with him behind my back and finally she succeeded in breaking us up. Now me and her are not friends but me and Jason got back together. We've been together for 2 years now."
--Megan, 13

"Well, my friend and I just so happen to like the same guy but we're still best friends. Don't let the guy you like ruin your friendship because you will regret it later in life."
--Jucel, 12

"Well, in first grade me and my best friend Maria REALLY liked a guy named Casey. I found out that he liked her and I really didn't like him any more."
--Alisha, 9

"Me and my BFF like this boy. A lot of girls like him but I'm going out with him. She can't get over it and our friendship to me is too important to let go. He's mine though, so Patricia, get over it."
--Reba, 12

"Well, it has happened before. I am involved in something like that right now. My best friend has a crush on my boyfriend. I might break up with him and let her have him."
--Hannah, 9

"Me and my friend don't fight because we promised we would never do that."
--Rachel, 10

"My best friend liked the same boy so we asked him who he would rather go out with and he said me. I was so happy but I still felt really bad for my best friend Kristen."
--Alleybug, 11

"Well, I like this really cute boy named Chris but I'm afraid to ask him if he likes me. What should I do?"
--Amanda

"My friend Laura and I had a crush on the same guy. For a while we didn't talk to each other. Then we found out he was taken so we felt like dorks not talking to each other and we said sorry."
--Chloe, 11

"That has never happened to me before but I would just wait to see what happened between you and your crush. See if your crush likes you, your friend, or if your crush chooses a different person."
--Sarah, 12

"We flipped a coin and I won."
--Tori

"Me and a friend both liked a very cute boy. It was so terrible! He had a crush on me the whole time! He liked me not her! I kind of felt bad for her. After that she got mad at me and the friendship was off. I thought about it and I realized no crush should ever come between friends."
--Amber, 12

"He just got over it."
--Erik, 9

"Once I had a friend named Cassey and we were going out with the same person (Nick). We would pout if we did not play with him so we said one person each day or too bad. Cassey and I were best friends so it went ok."
--Ashley, 11

"I'm a boy and I have a crush on a girl in my class. Two other boys like her. Mostly what I do is act funny and look at her when she's looking at me. I think she loves me back. We could make a cute couple!!!!!:)"
--Nick, 8

"I didn't worry about it too much. I mean, what's the big deal? The person that you both have a crush on probably isn't going to turn out to be 'THE ONE.' It also means your friend has great taste for looks, personalities, etc."
--Tessa, 12

"I like a boy and the whole 4th grade knows! Then his friend told me he likes me but then I saw him flirting with another girl."
--Shelby, 9

"My friend Meagan and I both liked the same boy. Well, it turned out the boy asked Meagan out to make me jealous, so when I broke up with my other boyfriend he dumped Meagan and asked me out and we have now been going out for almost a month. Now Meagan won't talk to me and she's going around spreading rumors about me!!!"
--Courtney, 13

"I have a crush on a boy named Lom. Then two other girls tell me they have a crush on him but he knows I like him."
--Brenda, 9

"When me and my friend Ariel were in the first grade, we both had this huge crush on a boy named Robert. Robert was sort of a bad boy and always needed help and he liked both of us. I couldn't stand that. I didn't think it was right. So I just told Robert I couldn't deal with that and that we could be friends. Robert took this okay and now I feel perfect. I'm glad I found out a way to solve that problem. Now I won't be miserable thinking about those moments with Robert again!"
--Kaila, 8

"Yeah. I started crushing on this really cute funny boy and then my friend starting liking him (or should I say loving him????). We didn't fight or anything, we just kinda supported each other. Then my other friend started liking him too!!!!!! I was kind of mad, but I'm pretty sure the boy won't like her. HE IS SOOO CUTE!!!"
--Joyce, 9

"My friend has a crush on the same guy that I do. I just don't worry about it and know that in the end, I'll get him. I just don't care what she thinks. He's mine."
--Sarah, 10

"Yes. Me and a friend have a crush on a boy named Cade."
. --Kristie, 11

"My friend crushed on a boy so bad. You should see how he looked."
--Kaitlin, 9

"I told my friend that I didn't like her and then I kept telling lies about her so he wouldn't like her any more. My friend's name is Antonyo and the girl we like is Kaia."
--Dominick, 10

"I have a crush on this boy named Kevin. I'm going to tell him as soon as possible."
--Sammie, 10

"There's this guy in my class. I like him a lot and there's this big dance coming up and I'm not sure that he likes me."
--Rachael, 9

"Yes, but she had no idea. When they started hanging out I got jealous and I blamed her for stupid stuff, but we talked it out and now we are best friends."
--Anonymous, 11

"My friend and I kind of liked the same boy and I thought he was cute but she really liked him. I just liked him as a friend but she wanted to go out with him. That is what happened. "
--Elizabeth, 10

"Yes, and he said he liked me and my friend was totally mad."
--Taylor, 10

"My best friend's name is Ashley, and me and her liked the same boy. She was a brat and asked Patrick out and we both ended up going out with him. Then I started getting jealous because she was always kissing him and I wasn't, so I dumped him and then so did she. Later I found out she was going back out with him. She always wants her way!!!!!!!!"
--Ashley, 12

"We didn't really do any thing about it. I was just really jealous because he started to like her."
--Sam, 12

"Yes, me and my friend Savanna have a crush on a boy named Jacob and we keep doing stuff for him to see who he'll pick!"
--Leanne, 9

"Well, I have a crush on this kid and my friend Maria has a crush on the same person. My crush likes me and now Maria's really jealous. She's kept it inside her most of the time but she kinda looks at me suspiciously when me and him sit next to each other. We don't let it get in the way of our friendship though. Sometimes we even tease each other about it!"
--Tyler, 11

"Me and my friend both have a crush on Sean and we told him. In other words, he knows and we're friends with him and we know that but I want him to like her more but on the other hand she's glad. What do I do?"
--Brianna, 12

"Me and my friend have a HUGE crush on this girl. She's good at everything. We solved it by playing rock, paper, scissors."
--John, 8

"Yes. We just finally got over it and I let her have him and I got jealous 'cause he kissed her."
--Dominique, 12

"Well, me and my friend Chelsey both had a crush on this seventh grader Ryan. I at one time went out with him for a while but one day he just stopped talking to me. Ryan liked Chelsey, but not me! So I asked him out and he said no. Ryan asked Chelsey out but she said NO! I was really surprised because Chelsey wanted to go out with him. She told me what happened and I got a little mad until she told me that she said no because she didn't want a guy to ruin our friendship! I was so surprised. To this day me and Chelsey are still good friends and Ryan now likes both of us! lol!!"
--Cara, 13

"I really crushed on a cute boy. He stares at me sometimes and he flirts with me but I'm not sure if he likes me as much as I like him. What should I do?"
--Maya, 10

"I told my friend that whoever the guy we like chooses gets him, and my friend said, 'Well he is SO mine.'"
--Stephanie, 11

"Well, we found out who he liked best and dealt with it."
--Chelsea, 11

"We didn't really care."
--Shelby

"Yes. Me and my friend/cousin crushed on two of the same boys because when we both came to middle school we both like this boy named Adrien. Adrien liked me so she stopped liking Adrien and then this boy Radell came and we both liked him. Tailisha liked him more than I did, so I let her have him but then we saw this boy named Keith and he was so cute but not cuter than Adrien. He is in the 8th grade so when we see him we just say, 'OOOOH HE IS SO CUTE!' Now Tailisha likes Radell, we both like Adrien and we both like Keith and all of us are in the same school. I don't like Radell any more. I only like Adrien and Keith, but we both still crush on a lot of the same boys."
--Sharjan, 12

"I had a crush on this girl and we kinda knew we liked each other but she had to move because her dad got a new job. We began keeping in touch with e-mail. The next year me and my friends began to play with this new girl and one of my friends told the girl I liked that I liked the new girl. The girl I liked thought I liked the new girl but I didn't. When I told her I had a crush on her she just said, 'I used to have a crush on you, but now I don't. I found someone new.' After that e-mail I felt totally crushed by her. Now I know why they call it a crush! I feel like crying all the time!"
--Anthony, 11

"Me and my friends always crush on the same guy and what we do to deal with it is we ask each other questions like, 'Do you like him a lot like to go out with him, or do you just like him?' Whichever one really likes him goes out with him."
--Melissa, 13

"Yes, only it is two people who have a crush on John and well...we didn't really care about it. How do you deal with it?"
--Chrissy, 8

"Yes, me and a friend of mine have had a crush on the same guy and he liked me more than he liked her so we talked and she said I could have a chance with him so I did! We have gone out for 3 years and my friend and I are still best friends!"
--Me

"I felt jealous because she was new and I had this crush on him for a while and my best friend was asking him out for her when I liked him and she knew it. So then when she asked him and he said yes, I was so down. I have another friend that felt bad for me because she knew that I liked him. Now I see them holding hands and everything, but that's all right because I'm over it."
--Miosotys, 12

"I really like a boy at school whose name is Tyrone but there's only one problem: he's got a girlfriend! I love you Tyrone. I even put my crush Tyrone on my phone! What am I to do? I hope he has a crush on me because I've got a huge crush on him! He'd better dump his girlfriend because I love him! How do I tell him that I like him?"
--Sharita

"I dealt with it by having another crush on somebody else in our school."
--Marie, 11

"My friend Dana and I had a crush on the same guy but we didn't let that ruin our friendship. I just felt happy for her anyway. You know that expression 'There's plenty more fish in the sea?' Plus, more love happens when you're older 'cause boys and girls have matured."
--Steph, 12

"Yeah, you guessed it! It was mean 'cause he's mine. She thinks just because she saw him first means she can lie about him being her bf when I asked him...grrr! Please help!"
--Tara, 11

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